Relational Wisdom Intensive |Virtual Workshop for Couples & Individuals

4 Sundays in March 2026

Build the skills that help relationships last.

Most of us were never taught how to do relationships—especially when stress, resentment, or conflict shows up. The Relational Wisdom Intensive is a live, skills-based virtual workshop designed to help couples and individuals move from reactive patterns into more grounded, connected, and effective communication.

Inspired by the work of Terry Real and facilitated by two Certified Relational Life Therapists, this 4-week intensive blends practical teaching with guided exercises you can use immediately—at home, at work, and in the relationships that matter most.

What you’ll learn in the Relational Wisdom Intensive

You’ll practice tools that support real change, including how to:

• Recognize the conflict cycle you keep repeating (and interrupt it sooner)

• Identify common relational “losing strategies” like being right, withdrawal, control, retaliation, or unbridled self-expression.

• Communicate with more clarity and less defensiveness.

• Make requests that are specific, honest, and easier for others to respond to

• Repair after rupture

• Build relational accountability without shame or scorekeeping.

• Strengthen emotional intimacy and teamwork over time.

Who this workshop is for

• Couples who want healthier conflict, deeper connection, and better repair

• Individuals who want stronger relationship skills (romantic, family, co-parenting, work)

• Anyone who feels stuck in “me vs. you” dynamics of an individually empowered society and wants a better way forward

You will leave with a clear framework and practical tools you can keep using.

Format and Schedule

• Live virtual workshop (Zoom)

• 4 Sundays in March

• 2 hours per week

• Dates: March 8, 15, 22, 29

• Time: 7-9 ET

• Interactive group learning, reflections, and skill-building exercises

• Investment: $350 for Individuals/$700 for Couples

Led by Two Certified Relational Life Therapists

The Relational Wisdom Intensive is led by two Certified Relational Life Therapists (CRLT) who teach relational skills grounded in the principles of Relational Life Therapy (RLT). Expect a supportive, structured learning environment with practical, direct, and compassionate tools.

Melissa Kester, LMFT, CRLT, CGE

Tanya Schecter, RCC, CRLT

Ready to join?

Register here: Relational Wisdom Intensive
Questions? melissa@madisonmft.com

Note: This workshop is informed by the work of Terry Real and the principles of Relational Life Therapy. It is not affiliated with or endorsed by Terry Real.

FAQ

Is this workshop only for couples?

No — it’s designed for couples and individuals. Individuals can apply the skills to dating, marriage, family relationships, co-parenting, and even workplace communication.

Do we have to share personal details in a group?

You’ll be invited to participate at your comfort level. Teaching is skills-based, with optional reflection and guided practice.

Is this therapy?

This is a psychoeducational workshop, not psychotherapy. It can be a powerful complement to therapy, but it is not a substitute for individualized mental health treatment.

What if we miss a session?

We aren’t able to offer make-up sessions or discounts for missed classes, but all materials and exercises will be available so you can catch up at your own pace.

What if we’re in a high-conflict place?

While we won’t enter into detail about your conflict, many people come in feeling stuck. You’ll learn tools for de-escalation, repair, and clearer communication. If there are safety concerns, individual clinical support may be more appropriate.

​Don't miss this opportunity to transform your relationship.
Join us and begin the journey towards the closeness and connection you've been longing for.

Register Here

Space is limited—secure your spot today!

$700 per couple / $350 per individual
(couples, please select 2 tickets below, for you and your partner)